My New Facebook!

Hey Hey!! I can now connect with everyone on Facebook! So excited! Just go to www.facebook.com/hennely and click "Like"! I hope to start streaming video on there soon! whoop whoop!

#14 The Guy Worth Waiting For

My sister Mariely first showed me this and I absolutely love it! So since it is her birthday today, I am going to dedicate this post to her :) She says: this is the kind of guy worth waiting for...the kind of guy worth putting time into...i know u girls will agree:

Find a guy, who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
Who calls you back when you hang up on him.
Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Who encourages you to achieve your dreams
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.
Who appreciates you for everything that you are
Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's her."

Ladies, if you are not with a man that is like this, please do not waste your time. They are out there and you deserve to be treated beautifully!

Happy Birthday Mar! I love you so much!!

With all my love,

Hennely

#13 What makes me feel beautiful

My blog today is for everyone to read this beautiful blog!! It will give you chills and make you see things from a different perspective. Enjoy!

http://www.realsimple.com/work-life/life-strategies/inspiration-motivation/makes-me-feel-beautiful-00000000017777/index.html?xid=WeeklyNews-090909

With all my love,

Hennely

#12 Reconnect with yourself: Are you being True?

After spending labor day weekend relaxing in what seemed like paradise with my boyfriend of one year, with no work, no cell phones, just me and him, I remembered the importance of leaving this busy world to reconnect.

Everyone needs a retreat, whether its to reconnect with loved ones, family, or just with yourself. Life (work, bills, appearance) always seems to get in the way. We pay more attention to all these other things that we think are more important and get so caught up in it. We need to ask ourselves: Who is the person that I really am? Am I putting on a front everyday or am I being real to myself and my thoughts? Do I live my life according to what other people think more than what I, and more importantly God, thinks? Don't sell yourself short. The personality you had when you were younger was there for a reason, don't go around altering it just to look good in front of others.

My boyfriend @G_NIUS is blowing up in the entertainment/music industry as Co-Founder of The Dream Big Hustle Hard Firm, best known for their industry events such as Beats on the Beach and The Dream Big Artist Showcase. They also founded DreamBigHustleHard.com and represent songwriters/producers Xplicit, The Fliptones, Red Spyda and Maria Zouroudis. He also recently resigned from Slip-N-Slide Records, where he was Director of Digital Development, New Media and Online Marketing, and it's so refreshing to see that he still remains true to who he is always. He doesn't put up a front, stays humble, and is always here with an open mind to help whoever needs it and comes his way, no matter how busy he is. That's why so many people respect him. I think that's how everyone needs to be. Don't let the money, fame, or status in life change who you are. God was the one who made it all happen, so make sure to always give him the thanks and appreciation, and just continue to work hard.

So take that time, get away from life for a second, and reconnect with yourself. Redefine who you are again, your values and morals, and don't lose sight of that from here on forward. Be true to yourself, always.

With all my love,

Hennely

#11- Dream Big, Hustle Hard

There are people out there who are currently content where they are with no desire to change. There are others who have spent their lives trying to achieve a dream and are now glorifying in all their success. Then there are those of us who know we belong somewhere, doing something we’ve always dreamed of but we have trouble building that bridge and connecting the person we are at present with the vision we have for ourselves in the future. Let me lay down an example: A girl works as a secretary in a business firm deep down has always wanted to own her own fashion line. How does she make that jump? How does she get out of that “rat race” where she needs the 9 to 5 to pay the bills but then doesn’t have time to pursue what she wants?

For one, THERE IS ALWAYS TIME! If it’s something that you truly want to do, you wouldn’t mind staying up till 4:30am to work on it, even after you’ve clocked out of your other job. That’s what the successful people do. Even those who don’t need the 9 to 5 to pay bills are always working ‘round the clock to make things happen. What makes you think you’re any different? In Twitterville it’s called the GrindFlu, and it means that, while the rest of the world is sleeping, you are one of the few out there staying up to make things happen! Those are the people whose dreams come true.

“Many of the great achievements of the world were accomplished by tired & discouraged men who kept on working”- RT on Twitter

Next, there are NO EXCUSES! Whether you are tired, don’t have enough money, may not have the latest and best equipment, nothing should hold you back! Work with what u have, don’t let anything stop you! If you work in a mall and can’t tweet because you don’t have a smart phone, go to the Apple store in the mall and tweet before work, after work and during your lunch break. Don’t have access to a computer at home? Go to the library! Its’ all about letting nothing stop you!

“There are no excuses when you're trying to get to the top”

Last, but definitely not least, realize that IN EVERYTHING, THERE IS AN OPPORTUNITY! Lets say you work at that 9 to 5 that you think has nothing to do with what you want in the future. Don’t just look at it as a job, realize that behind it, there is gold. Lets take the girl who works as a secretary for example. If she really wanted to she could turn her mindset around and realize that what she is actually learning by being in that job is invaluable things like time management, organization, and scheduling, all things that, if done right, will put her way ahead of the competition when starting her own fashion line. It’s all in the mindset! Once you realize how your job will truly help you for the future, you’ll now do it with that much more conviction and excitement because you’ll see that it’s all just preparation for when you are ready to go on your path!

We all have a purpose here on this Earth. Lets go out there and make it happen!!

With all my love,

Hennely

#10- Everybody's Free (To Wear Sunscreen)

This video came out many many years ago, but all the great advice still holds true today. It's amazing how much times don't change. Yes, maybe outside factors do, like inventing a new robot or communicating through the internet, but humanity, and what is truly important in this world for us to survive and pass along to our children, hasn't changed in centuries. And I can guarantee you it will never change.  

Enjoy the video!

#9- Why can't we reach our dreams? Or can we...

Sometimes, you have to push yourself in life.  Many of us can dream up of amazing things that we plan to do with our lives, what kind of house we want to live in, what kind of job would be so ideal, or what lifestyle we want, but then 40 years go by, and all of that is still stuff that’s only in our heads. You look back and wonder, “Where did all that time go? This was not where I saw myself, and I can never get this time back again.” What good is dreaming about things if we don’t push ourselves and make the first moves to accomplish it? Because if not, it’ll stay as that, just a dream.

You know how most people find it really hard to go to the gym, or to start that new diet and maintain it? The reason for this is because we don’t push ourselves hard enough. That’s the key word there: Enough. Sure, we give it a little try here and there, but it always falls short of reaching our goal. And then we give the excuse that  “we tried”, when in fact, we never tried hard enough to reach that turning point. That’s where the magic happens and that’s the point we have to get to in order to really turn things around. If we did, we’d find ourselves really engaged in what we’re doing and really liking it! It becomes second nature to us and part of our new lifestyle. Just like it takes a lot of force to get a heavy ball rolling, that’s how much force and energy we need to instill in accomplishing the things we want. And, just like the unstoppable momentum of the ball after it’s been pushed hard enough, so to, do our dreams and desires gain momentum and speed. But none of this happens if we give up before we reach that point. Whether it’s a new way of eating, a company you want to start, or a career change you’ve always dreamed of, life is about pushing ourselves to new extremes and trying things we never thought possible. Challenge yourself every day. Dare to accomplish something great, and to be a better you with each and every day.